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Cry Baby

Carol Gray Babies, Bodywork, Infants, Postpartum, Wellness August 31, 2021August 5, 2024babies, bodywork, carol gray, colic, colicky baby, craniosacral therapy, cry baby, crying baby, infant sleep, making room for babies, pacifiers, pain coping practice, parenting, tantrum, unmet needs, white noise

I recently had a conversation with parents about crying babies and toddlers. They were apartment dwellers who were concerned about disturbing the neighbors.

CRYING! It is, after all, a distress call. It’s disturbing — like having a shrieking smoke alarm in your living room. It’s supposed to attract parental attention. Crying is one of the baby’s main survival skills. It helps a baby tell parents/caregivers that they have an unmet need. Sometimes crying is a pain-coping practice. Other times it is a form of release. Read more

More About Epidurals

Carol Gray Birth, Pregnancy August 24, 2021August 5, 2024birth plans, birth preparation, bradley method, breathe, carol gray, conscious birth, craniosacral therapy, doulas, epidurals, intrapartum care, pain coping practice, pregnant

I have been thinking a lot about epidural anesthesia for childbirth. Among those who have experienced it, birth is almost universally described as painful. Who wouldn’t want a drug or procedure that takes away the pain? Clearly, most pregnant people in America want this. It is by far the mainstream way to give birth. Read more

Insomnia — The Movie

Carol Gray Pregnancy, Wellness, Yoga May 4, 2021August 5, 2024asana, birth preparation, bodywork, breathe, carol gray, conscious birth, craniosacral therapy, gratitude, insomnia, mamaspace yoga, meditation, namaste, online prenatal yoga, pain coping practice, Pranayama, pregnancy yoga, pregnant, prenatal yoga, self care, sleep, yoga

Last week’s post, Pregnancy Insomnia Help, included a five-step yoga sequence for sleep. This week’s post is a 14-minute video of that sequence. It was fun making it. I hope you enjoy it. Read more

Pregnancy Insomnia Help

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Insomnia is common during pregnancy. It ‘s no joke. Some people say it’s just practice for after your baby is born and they wake you at night. Not funny. There are two main categories of pregnancy-related insomnia: trouble falling asleep and trouble getting back to sleep after awakening during the night. Read more

All About Posterior Pelvic Pain in Pregnancy

Carol Gray Birth, Bodywork, Postpartum, Pregnancy, Wellness, Yoga April 20, 2021August 5, 2024asana, birth preparation, bodywork, carol gray, craniosacral therapy, making room for babies, mamaspace yoga, namaste, online prenatal yoga, pain coping practice, pelvic instability, pelvic ligaments, postpartum preparation, pregnancy fitness, pregnancy yoga, pregnant, pregnant exercise, prenatal yoga safety, science, self care, SI Joints, yoga

How it All Starts

Pain in the posterior pelvis is common during pregnancy. It typically begins in mid pregnancy. Although, it can start at any time. Sometimes it goes away during pregnancy. If it does, that usually happens in the third trimester. Other times it persists long after the birth. Your mileage may vary. Read more

Finding Your Question

Carol Gray Babies, Birth, Fertility, Infants, Postpartum, Pregnancy, Wellness, Yoga January 26, 2021August 5, 2024birth outcomes, birth plans, birth preparation, birthing from within, bodywork, carol gray, cesarean preparation, conscious birth, craniosacral therapy, finding your question, pain coping practice, postpartum preparation, pregnant, self care

Finding Your Question is a process I have been introducing to groups for over 20 years. I have lead this activity with more than a thousand people – usually in small groups. I never tire of it. I guide ALL of my Craniosacral Therapy students to find their deepest questions at the beginning of any class series. It has been a daily practice in my own life since I learned it from Pam England, author of Birthing From Within. I began working in this way with groups of expectant parents in 1999. Read more

The Truth About Epidurals

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The Truth About Birth

First a word or two about birth physiology: Labor is almost universally painful for birthing parents and sometimes painful for babies. One of the ways we cope with pain is to produce beta-endorphin. Beta-endorphin is an opiate-like brain chemical – the same one responsible for the so-called runner’s high. It reduces pain. Read more

Cesareans! Emergencies! and Strategies!

Carol Gray Babies, Birth, Infants, Pregnancy, Wellness October 6, 2020August 5, 2024birth outcomes, birth plans, birth power, birth preparation, bodywork, carol gray, cesarean preparation, cesarean recovery, conscious birth, craniosacral therapy, doulas, emergency cesarean, intrapartum care, making room for babies, meditation, pain coping practice, postpartum preparation, pregnant, prenatal care, science, unplanned cesarean

The word “emergency” used to ONLY apply to childbirth. The baby emerges, get it?

Two (Three) Kinds of Cesareans

Lately, I have been hearing an emergent theme in the stories people have been sharing with me about their cesarean births. They divide them into two categories – planned and emergency.Often a parent will say to me that their cesarean birth was not planned. It was an emergency. Yet, when I hear the details of the story it almost always falls into the third and largest category – the unplanned cesarean. It is really a story about a failed induction, a less-then-ideally positioned baby who fails to descend (and emerge), a baby who wasn’t coping well with labor contractions, but didn’t need to come out RIGHT NOW, etc. Read more